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Sunday, July 20, 2014

Being Positive

-:VB:-

All of us want to be positive now don't we?
We all want to be the happy go lucky people that we see around us all the time. We look at them and go "I wish my life could be like theirs" "I wish I could be happy..." and what not.

We all think that what we are living right now isn't what we deserve. We deserve something better.
Why shouldn't we? We have worked sooo hard to be where we are today, so why doesn't life treat us in that manner?
Don't most of us think this way?

In a sad and down state of mind, how many haven't thought of what would this world be like if you weren't simply born? And that the world maybe would've been a better place?

We all know that all of this is a negative aspect of our life that we can never run from. But that doesn't mean that you can't be positive.

It's simple. Really. Be content with what you have.
That's right.

Don't worry about the future, it'll happen when it has to happen. There's nothing you can do to change your past. (Fact: Time machines are not for real)
What has passed has passed. Your life, your bad decisions, the opportunities, the hard earned chances... All of it is gone. What can you do about it? Nothing!
Why cry over that stuff? You've learned a lesson haven't you? Or are you that stupid to understand what happened?
Think over it. Work over it. And most importantly, get over with it.
You have to move on. I'm not saying you shouldn't grieve, but it doesn't mean that your life has ended. We all are brave. But keep that experience in your head, and one day when you least expect it, it'll come handy, and you'll be proud of yourself.

All those broken relationships, those bad business choices, those moments when you were broken, those guilts, those failures.... all of this happens to everyone.

You feel like you are not pretty or handsome?
You feel like everything wrong is happening because of you?
You feel like all the problems come only to you?
-- Welcome to the club!
It's not only you, it happens to those whom you want to be as happy as too. It's only that they have the courage to hold it in, to understand and most of all wear a smile and be happy as if nothing happened.
Many have emerged from the deepest points of life - from rags to riches, from death to life, and from failures to achievers. Why should you be any different?
The planet is full of people, you have years to live, places to go, things to experience, events to witness...don't let anything drag you down, don't let anyone tell you anything any different.

In some cases life isn't as thankful as others.
Don't think when you're going to die for God's sake. The internet is full of that crap. It "claims" to tell you the time of your death, your wedding... and I dunno what not. This leads to curiosity doesn't it? I mean I've been checking these clocks all the time... but not to be sad about it, but because I feel it is funny that we need a program to tell us when we are going to live or die, we need it to make life decisions for us? Come On!!!

We have a short life.
Literally. It's not possible to estimate your time on this planet, but the why worry about that?
Why think about dying when you have a chance to live?

Life is like a Pizza.. that is what I BELIEVE it is... an assorted one.
Some slices are better than the others, some suck, some have extra cheese, some are delicious, some are bland, some are pretty and some are dull.
- Just like life, different moments, different experiences.

When you eat a pizza, which is already ordered, do you waste it? No. You eat it. Why? Because it is the right thing to do... (that.. and you paid for it too...)
- No matter what you have to live your life... because it's the right thing to do.

If there's some leftover food in kitchen, and you have a pizza in front of you, what do you eat? The Pizza of course!
- You have the power to make a choice.

You can cut more slices out of a Pizza. Not necessary to eat it the way the restaurant tells you to.
- Make your own decisions, but most importantly do what is right.

Pizza has many slices not only one. Why? So that it can be shared.
- You won't get people eager to meet you. You have to get out there and meet people, make friends. They'll be the ones who'll be a part of your slice... part of your Pizza called life, and you'll be a part of their life too.

But unlike a Pizza, you cannot choose life. Life chooses you!

Boy... so many things a Pizza can teach you indeed!

Jokes apart...

Life.
And it's up to you to live up to it. Living is a challenge. Don't you agree?
With all that everyday struggle and those tears, those problems, doesn't life actually challenge you?


Don't you feel like replying to it?
Don't you feel like saying this to life:
"Not matter what you do, I'm not losing. I'll win.
Hit me... I dare you. Hit me with all you got!
I'll smile forever, I'll be happy. You cannot make me go away.
I'll work so hard, I'll compel you to reward me.
I won't worry, I won't cry... I'll face you, and I sure as hell won't die!"

Be content.
Be brave.
Smile.
Learn.
Begin from the start every day.
Respect everyone.
Do not fear.
Be thankful for whatever you have.
Work hard and smart.
Face challenges.
Bear no guilt.
Have no regrets.
- For being positive these are the secrets.

Be Positive! (And I don't mean the blood group...)  ;)


Thanks for reading, and I would appreciate your inputs in the comments section below...